Happy New Year! The PHOTO OP blog was started as a way for us to share some of our thoughts, experience, and skills with you and as 2009 comes (and all the negatives of the downed economy with it) I’d like to share a positive experience I just had.
I was shooting this story of a suspicious death in Muskegon yesterday, and my reporter and I were walking door-to-door asking neighbors what they had seen or heard and if they knew anyone living at the home involved.
Now I know many of you are asking, “why do you have to bother those people (friends/family) who have just experienced a major loss/tragedy by shoving a camera in their face”. Well, like it or not it’s very much a part of the job. A part of it we hate more than anything else and if we could choose to, would just rather not do. But that would be like a police officer choosing not to go to a major accident scene when called by their dispatch. When when do have to do it we try our best to do it humbly, respectfully, and professionally as we can. And when we’re told “no”, then we say “thank you” and let them be.
Well, in this case we came upon one particular neighbor, Dianne was her name, who invited us into her home, insisting we come inside to keep warm. She was very kind but clearly shaken by what had happened. After talking with her further we had found out that she was indeed a good friend of the woman found dead and the man who had been arrested in connection with this incident. She was in tears as she told us how she and her boyfriend had plans to go out with this couple to celebrate New Year’s Eve together. In her interview with us, she told us about the many positive things about her friend who was found dead and how much of a kind and giving person she was.
What moved me most by this whole experience was that this woman (Dianne) in the middle of a personal tragedy, would be so kind to total strangers, invite us into her home, and treat us a not just some news crew, but as friends to share her pain with.
It still shocks me when this happens, and from time to time it does. But it reminds me that even in the middle of tragedy and the evil that can surround it, there IS some basic good in humanity and that we always need to be willing to see it and value it.
It’s my hope for you that this year you too can see and experience the good of humanity.